Nobody talks about it enough. You are in a consultation, or scrolling late at night, and you wonder whether what you are experiencing is normal - or whether you just have to put up with it.
The short answer: vaginal dryness during menopause is very common, entirely treatable, and nothing to push through in silence. Here is what is actually happening, what genuinely helps, and what to look for when choosing a product.
As oestrogen levels fall during perimenopause and menopause, the vaginal tissues become thinner, less elastic, and produce less natural lubrication. This is sometimes called Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM) - a broader term that also covers urinary symptoms and changes to the vulva.
Symptoms can include:
Unlike hot flushes, which often improve over time, vaginal dryness tends not to resolve on its own without treatment. The earlier you address it, the easier it is to manage.
Up to 50% of postmenopausal women experience vaginal dryness
Yet the majority never seek treatment. You are far from alone - and help is straightforward.
There are several approaches depending on severity and personal preference. These are not mutually exclusive - many women use a combination.
1. Intimate moisturisers and body oils (non-hormonal)
Used regularly as part of a daily routine, these help restore hydration to vaginal and vulval tissue over time. They are not applied in the moment like a lubricant - they work cumulatively. Good options are water-based, pH-balanced, and fragrance-light. They are suitable for women who are not using HRT, those waiting for HRT to take effect, or anyone who prefers a non-hormonal approach.
2. Intimate lubricants (used during sex)
Water-based lubricants provide immediate comfort during intimacy. They are not a long-term treatment for dryness, but they significantly reduce discomfort. If you are using condoms or sex toys, always choose water-based and check the label for compatibility.
3. Body hydration and skin nourishment
Perimenopause also changes the skin more broadly - not just intimate areas. Body oils rich in natural botanicals can help maintain skin softness, support circulation, and build a sense of body connection and confidence that hormonal shifts can quietly erode.
4. HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy)
For women with moderate to severe symptoms, topical oestrogen (applied directly to the vagina as a cream or pessary) or systemic HRT prescribed by a doctor addresses the root hormonal cause. These are available over the counter or via prescription and are worth discussing with your GP or a TribElle Clinician.
TribElle stocks the full Gloriah range - four products designed specifically for women navigating perimenopause and menopause. Here is what each one does and who it suits.
A deeply hydrating oil that softens, smooths and nourishes skin. It boosts circulation and body awareness, supports relaxation, sensuality and confidence, and is ideal for perimenopausal women looking to rebuild their relationship with their body. It has a light, natural botanical scent that fades as it absorbs, and is gentle enough for daily use.
Best for: Daily hydration, body nourishment, building confidence and body connection
A water-based intimate gel designed specifically for dryness during perimenopause and menopause. It adds instant moisture and comfort, balances pH, supports intimate wellness, and is condom-friendly and toy-safe. It is designed to be gentle, hydrating and pH-balanced - suitable for sensitive intimate skin. It feels silky rather than sticky.
Best for: Intimate dryness, pH balance, comfort during sex, everyday intimate moisture
A brightening daily pulse oil that restores glow and radiance. Rich in antioxidants to support skin repair and particularly good for dull, tired or winter skin. Applied to pulse points, its energising aroma lifts spirits, promotes calm focus and creates a self-care moment throughout the day. Light, silky and smooth - it absorbs gradually and leaves skin supple.
Best for: Morning routine, skin radiance, energy and focus, mood support
A soothing, sensual balm for relaxation and mindful self-connection. It calms tension, supports hormone-related stress, and is perfect for grounding routines and winding down before bed. Made with nourishing natural ingredients, it absorbs without leaving a greasy residue and is ideal for women experiencing the emotional and physical overload that often comes alongside physical menopause symptoms.
Best for: Evening routine, stress and tension relief, sleep support, grounding
Vaginal dryness is one of the most under-reported and under-treated symptoms of menopause. Many women assume it is just something to accept. It is not. There are safe, effective options - and starting earlier rather than later makes a real difference to comfort and quality of life.
Julie Boora, Superintendent Pharmacist & Clinical Director, TribElle
Not all intimate moisturisers and lubricants are made equal. Here is a quick guide to what matters:
All Gloriah products stocked at TribElle are available from a GPhC-registered pharmacy with discreet next-day delivery.
| Lubricant Type | Latex Condoms | Silicone Toys | Common Considerations |
|---|---|---|---|
| Water-based | ✓ Compatible | ✓ Compatible | Easy to clean, may require reapplication |
| Silicone-based | ✓ Compatible | ✗ May damage silicone toys | Long-lasting, less likely to dry out |
| Oil-based | ✗ Not latex compatible | ✓ Generally compatible | Can weaken condoms and increase breakage risk |
What causes vaginal dryness during menopause?
Falling oestrogen levels cause vaginal tissues to become thinner, less elastic, and less well-lubricated. This can begin during perimenopause, often years before periods stop entirely.
Is vaginal dryness during menopause normal?
Yes - it affects up to 50% of postmenopausal women. It is a recognised symptom of the menopause transition and entirely treatable, though many women do not seek help. You do not have to just put up with it.
What is the difference between a lubricant and an intimate moisturiser?
A lubricant is used in the moment during sex to reduce friction. An intimate moisturiser is used regularly (daily or several times a week) to restore and maintain hydration in vaginal tissue over time. Both have a role - many women use both.
Is the Gloriah Soul Gel suitable for sensitive intimate skin?
Yes - it is designed to be gentle, hydrating and pH-balanced. It is condom-friendly, toy-safe and does not leave a sticky residue.
Can I use the Gloriah Liberation Oil every day?
Yes - and daily use is recommended for best results. It becomes more effective with consistent application. Most women find it soothing; patch-test first if your skin is reactive.
Should I speak to a doctor about vaginal dryness?
For mild to moderate dryness, over-the-counter products can make a significant difference. If symptoms are severe, affecting your daily life, or accompanied by other menopause symptoms, it is worth speaking to your GP about prescription options including topical oestrogen or HRT.
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Browse all Menopause productsThis article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. If you are experiencing symptoms that concern you, please speak to your GP or a qualified pharmacist. TribElle is a GPhC-registered pharmacy (Reg. 9012688).